From: krw on
On Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:24:11 -0800, Rich Grise <richgrise(a)example.net>
wrote:

>On Fri, 11 Dec 2009 19:03:14 -0600, krw wrote:
>>
>> Sky falling there? ;-)
>
>It's falling here at the moment, in liquid form. ;-)

Answered my question. ;-)
From: Jim Thompson on
On Fri, 11 Dec 2009 19:13:35 -0600, Jim Yanik <jyanik(a)abuse.gov>
wrote:

>Charlie E. <edmondson(a)ieee.org> wrote in
>news:39j5i59bbos86k817hognomq7dn6ua0ngd(a)4ax.com:
>
>> On Fri, 11 Dec 2009 11:32:44 -0800, Joerg <invalid(a)invalid.invalid>
>> wrote:
[auto-snip]
>>>
>>>What I really don't understand is when a couple goes into big time
>>>debt just for the wedding ceremony, and often the bride's folks as
>>>well. I've heard of one couple who "had to" sell their home and move
>>>into an apartment to give their daughter an "appropriate" wedding.
>>>
>>>We made sure that neither of our parents had to pay anything and that
>>>our wedding ceremony was reasonable and could be comfortably paid from
>>>our savings (without raiding the account). Credit card use for the
>>>wedding was zilch.
>>
>> Ah, Jeorg, we are so much alike!
>>
>> When we got married, we were still in college, so had a small ceremony
>> there. We paid for the flowers, the photos (a real mess, but then we
>> were young then, and didn't know to get things in writing!) the cakes,
>> etc. We didn't even HAVE a credit card at the time! Her folks helped
>> out on some of the expenses, and her mom made the dress. I just
>> rented a tux. It was simple, and inexpensive, and still very
>> memorable!
>>
>> Charlie
>>
>
>kids these days are more into self-gratification.
>They will go into debt with an expensive wedding,they'll buy boob jobs on
>credit while their kids go without stuff,etc.Gotta have two cars,a gym
>membership,go clubbing all the time, and so on. No savings.
>
>They don't plan for the future.

All four of our kids had their own cars, orthodontics and
family-paid-for college, weddings for the girls, rehearsal dinners for
the boys, and down-payments for their first houses... but I never did
have a gym membership or get a boob job ;-)

And all that extended family will be here for Christmas !!

...Jim Thompson
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From: Joerg on
krw wrote:
> On Fri, 11 Dec 2009 11:32:44 -0800, Joerg <invalid(a)invalid.invalid>
> wrote:
>
>> Joel Koltner wrote:
>>> "Joerg" <invalid(a)invalid.invalid> wrote in message
>>> news:7ob08jF3oortqU1(a)mid.individual.net...
>>>> But wait, $600 for a Christmas gift? Ain't that a bit over the top?
>>> Only a little... I think that $250-$500 per kid for Xmas today is not at
>>> all uncommon today...
>>>
>>>> As a kid I had to work for stuff like that. For example at a meat
>>>> factory until I had the $400 for my first used and pretty banged up
>>>> HW100 transceiver.
>>> I doubt you can legally work at a meat factory unless you're at least 18
>>> today. :-(
>>>
>>> If you want to see some kids with wealthy parents who are *seriously*
>>> spoiled, check this out:
>>> http://www.mtv.com/shows/sweet_16/episodes.jhtml . It's not uncommon on
>>> that show for the parents to blow $25-$100k on their kid's 16th birthday!
>>>
>>> If I had the choice between a Lexus and, I dunno, a Civic and a bunch of
>>> test equipment, I think it'd be obvious which I'd choose...
>>>
>> What I really don't understand is when a couple goes into big time debt
>> just for the wedding ceremony, and often the bride's folks as well. I've
>> heard of one couple who "had to" sell their home and move into an
>> apartment to give their daughter an "appropriate" wedding.
>>
>> We made sure that neither of our parents had to pay anything and that
>> our wedding ceremony was reasonable and could be comfortably paid from
>> our savings (without raiding the account). Credit card use for the
>> wedding was zilch.
>
> I was in college when we got married. Her parents paid for everything
> but the minister (that cost me a week's pay and he only charge me half
> the normal $100 ;). I think they shelled out about $1000 but 80% of
> that was the dress. It still haunts me (moved it twice in the last
> two years).


The amazing thing is that my wife still fits into her dress. I, on the
other hand ...

--
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From: krw on
On Sat, 12 Dec 2009 12:18:32 -0800, Joerg <invalid(a)invalid.invalid>
wrote:

>krw wrote:
>> On Fri, 11 Dec 2009 11:32:44 -0800, Joerg <invalid(a)invalid.invalid>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> Joel Koltner wrote:
>>>> "Joerg" <invalid(a)invalid.invalid> wrote in message
>>>> news:7ob08jF3oortqU1(a)mid.individual.net...
>>>>> But wait, $600 for a Christmas gift? Ain't that a bit over the top?
>>>> Only a little... I think that $250-$500 per kid for Xmas today is not at
>>>> all uncommon today...
>>>>
>>>>> As a kid I had to work for stuff like that. For example at a meat
>>>>> factory until I had the $400 for my first used and pretty banged up
>>>>> HW100 transceiver.
>>>> I doubt you can legally work at a meat factory unless you're at least 18
>>>> today. :-(
>>>>
>>>> If you want to see some kids with wealthy parents who are *seriously*
>>>> spoiled, check this out:
>>>> http://www.mtv.com/shows/sweet_16/episodes.jhtml . It's not uncommon on
>>>> that show for the parents to blow $25-$100k on their kid's 16th birthday!
>>>>
>>>> If I had the choice between a Lexus and, I dunno, a Civic and a bunch of
>>>> test equipment, I think it'd be obvious which I'd choose...
>>>>
>>> What I really don't understand is when a couple goes into big time debt
>>> just for the wedding ceremony, and often the bride's folks as well. I've
>>> heard of one couple who "had to" sell their home and move into an
>>> apartment to give their daughter an "appropriate" wedding.
>>>
>>> We made sure that neither of our parents had to pay anything and that
>>> our wedding ceremony was reasonable and could be comfortably paid from
>>> our savings (without raiding the account). Credit card use for the
>>> wedding was zilch.
>>
>> I was in college when we got married. Her parents paid for everything
>> but the minister (that cost me a week's pay and he only charge me half
>> the normal $100 ;). I think they shelled out about $1000 but 80% of
>> that was the dress. It still haunts me (moved it twice in the last
>> two years).
>
>
>The amazing thing is that my wife still fits into her dress.

I'd never suggest...

>I, on the other hand ...

Exactly. I'd get the (back of the) other hand...
From: Jamie on
Joerg wrote:
> krw wrote:
>
>> On Fri, 11 Dec 2009 11:32:44 -0800, Joerg <invalid(a)invalid.invalid>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> Joel Koltner wrote:
>>>
>>>> "Joerg" <invalid(a)invalid.invalid> wrote in message
>>>> news:7ob08jF3oortqU1(a)mid.individual.net...
>>>>
>>>>> But wait, $600 for a Christmas gift? Ain't that a bit over the top?
>>>>
>>>> Only a little... I think that $250-$500 per kid for Xmas today is
>>>> not at all uncommon today...
>>>>
>>>>> As a kid I had to work for stuff like that. For example at a meat
>>>>> factory until I had the $400 for my first used and pretty banged up
>>>>> HW100 transceiver.
>>>>
>>>> I doubt you can legally work at a meat factory unless you're at
>>>> least 18 today. :-(
>>>>
>>>> If you want to see some kids with wealthy parents who are
>>>> *seriously* spoiled, check this out:
>>>> http://www.mtv.com/shows/sweet_16/episodes.jhtml . It's not
>>>> uncommon on that show for the parents to blow $25-$100k on their
>>>> kid's 16th birthday!
>>>>
>>>> If I had the choice between a Lexus and, I dunno, a Civic and a
>>>> bunch of test equipment, I think it'd be obvious which I'd choose...
>>>>
>>> What I really don't understand is when a couple goes into big time
>>> debt just for the wedding ceremony, and often the bride's folks as
>>> well. I've heard of one couple who "had to" sell their home and move
>>> into an apartment to give their daughter an "appropriate" wedding.
>>>
>>> We made sure that neither of our parents had to pay anything and that
>>> our wedding ceremony was reasonable and could be comfortably paid
>>> from our savings (without raiding the account). Credit card use for
>>> the wedding was zilch.
>>
>>
>> I was in college when we got married. Her parents paid for everything
>> but the minister (that cost me a week's pay and he only charge me half
>> the normal $100 ;). I think they shelled out about $1000 but 80% of
>> that was the dress. It still haunts me (moved it twice in the last
>> two years).
>
>
>
> The amazing thing is that my wife still fits into her dress. I, on the
> other hand ...
>
What! You can't fit into her dress any more?