From: krw on
On Mon, 10 May 2010 21:14:57 -0700, "JosephKK"<quiettechblue(a)yahoo.com> wrote:

>On Mon, 10 May 2010 17:16:54 -0500, "krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz"
><krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz> wrote:
>
>>On Sun, 09 May 2010 23:12:57 -0700, "JosephKK"<quiettechblue(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>
>>>On Sun, 09 May 2010 22:18:45 -0500, "krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz"
>>><krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz> wrote:
>>>
>>>>On Sun, 09 May 2010 09:29:08 -0700, "JosephKK"<quiettechblue(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>On Fri, 07 May 2010 17:46:30 -0500, "krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz"
>>>>><krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>>On Thu, 06 May 2010 21:29:13 -0700, "JosephKK"<quiettechblue(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>On Thu, 06 May 2010 17:58:10 -0500, "krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz"
>>>>>>><krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz> wrote:
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>On Wed, 05 May 2010 21:35:35 -0700, "JosephKK"<quiettechblue(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>On Tue, 04 May 2010 23:37:10 -0500, "krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz"
>>>>>>>>><krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>On Tue, 04 May 2010 20:59:26 -0700, "JosephKK"<quiettechblue(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>On Tue, 4 May 2010 16:21:39 -0700, "Joel Koltner"
>>>>>>>>>>><zapwireDASHgroups(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>><krw(a)att.bizzzzzzzzzzzz> wrote in message
>>>>>>>>>>>>news:hb91u5t2ova3gpvhvkr9ost92assaje3j5(a)4ax.com...
>>>>>>>>>>>>> We generally don't buy Lattes, or such, but we're not beyond buying a coffee
>>>>>>>>>>>>> at Dinkin' Donuts (except that there are none here). I do spend some cash
>>>>>>>>>>>>> on
>>>>>>>>>>>>> hobby stuff, though. Gotta get ready to retire. ;-)
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>Which hobbies might those be, Keith? I was thinking your main hobby was
>>>>>>>>>>>>watching football on a big-screen TV... ;-)
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>Interesting, Keith did not strike me as the big screen type at all.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>We have a 42" plasma. Not huge by today's standards but it works for our
>>>>>>>>>>great room.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Use it much?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>I watch a couple of hours a night (usually compressed into 90 minutes). SWMBO
>>>>>>>>has it on whenever she's awake (and significant time when she's not ;).
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>SWMBO use, i keep forgetting that one. (i don't have a SWMBO)
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Maybe that's why you don't have one? ;-)
>>>>>
>>>>>It might be a factor. Then again, i never did get much joy out of
>>>>>permanently unbalanced relationships.
>>>>
>>>>Unbalanced? Maybe *that* is your problem.
>>>
>>>Having had more than one balanced relationship has spoilt me. I won't
>>>settle for anything less now.
>>
>>Given that you've experienced more than one, why would you assume others would
>>be unbalanced?
>
>The very definition of SWBMO requires an unbalanced relationship.
>"Low WAF (SAF)" does not necessarily require such but does not preclude
>it.

Absolute nonsense.

>Absence of spousal input on any significant (impacts spouse plans or
>desires) decision may indicate injudicious boundaries.

Ok...

>Adults should balance out, and each will have areas of primacy in
>knowledge, interest, time available. These tradeoffs should adapt as the
>adults continue to develop, age, and circumstances change.

It'll be 39 years in June, so...