From: Sara on
In article <7rivjmFti5U1(a)mid.individual.net>,
Chris Ridd <chrisridd(a)mac.com> wrote:

> On 2010-01-18 10:54:32 +0000, J. J. Lodder said:
>
> > Mr Google and Ms Clinton seems to disagree,
>
> "Ms"? AIUI they're still married. Unless you mean their daughter?

For business contacts I use Ms rather than Mrs. Obviously those who knew
me as Ms Kirk and now know me as Ms Merriman (although to be honest most
people call me Sara - I'm not that formal) can infer that I've got
married but it is none of their business, just as I have no business
knowing whether or not they are married.

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From: Rowland McDonnell on
J. J. Lodder <nospam(a)de-ster.demon.nl> wrote:

> Rowland McDonnell <real-address-in-sig(a)flur.bltigibbet.invalid> wrote:
>
> > Jaimie Vandenbergh <jaimie(a)sometimes.sessile.org> wrote:
> >
> > > Chris Ridd <chrisridd(a)mac.com> wrote:
> > >
> > > >J. J. Lodder said:
> > > >
> > > >> Mr Google and Ms Clinton seems to disagree,
> > > >
> > > >"Ms"? AIUI they're still married. Unless you mean their daughter?
> > >
> > > Ms covers both miss and mrs. And mistress too, in at least one sense.
> >
> > Ms, Mrs, and Miss are all personal titles to be used by the choice of
> > the person to whom they apply.
>
> Unfortunately, I am not familiar with Ms Clinton,
> and it seems unlikely I will ever have the opportunity
> to ask her in person about her preferences. (if any)
> So I'll do it my way, if you don't mind.

You'll do it your way whether I mind or not - unless you're a spineless
worm rather than a normal Dutchman.

I have my opinion on the proper usage of personal titles and I've given
it. And I'll do so any time I think it's appropriate.

I don't expect anyone to change their behaviour based on me expressing
my opinions on this matter, but I'm damned if I'm going to let some
horrible rude new convention arise that I'd find distasteful to use
without at least raising some kind of stink about it.

> Weren't you the anarchist here?

<grin>

I still am.

Does it disturb you that I'm not meeting the spec of an anarchist that
you got from some book?

Do remember that the point about anarchy is that you're *supposed* to
make up your own rules. Anarchists in the contemporary sense will never
run anything because they spend too much time arguing amongst
themselves; although unlike socialists, anarchists know how to enjoy
themselves and have a decent party which makes up for the arguing
somewhat, just so long as you only hear about it in the news reports...

Rowland.

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From: Rowland McDonnell on
Sara <saramerriman(a)blueyonder.co.uk> wrote:

[snip]

> For business contacts I use Ms rather than Mrs. Obviously those who knew
> me as Ms Kirk and now know me as Ms Merriman (although to be honest most
> people call me Sara - I'm not that formal) can infer that I've got
> married but it is none of their business, just as I have no business
> knowing whether or not they are married.

My wife insists on `Dr' to avoid the `are you married or not' point ever
being considered.

Rowland.

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