From: Bella Jones on
Jim <jim(a)magrathea.plus.com> wrote:

> Peter Ceresole <peter(a)cara.demon.co.uk> wrote:
>
> > Nige Danton <nige.danton(a)nospam.com> wrote:
> >
> > > I'm a regular reader and occassional poster seeking help and I've always
> > > received nothing but helpful and informative responses.
> >
> > I agree with you. But these post used to be the rule, and have nothing
> > to do with the genuinely nasty posts we've been seeing lately. And,
> > using MacSOUP, those are easy to spot and skip.
>
> This is one area where I'd like to see an improvement in MacSOUP - if
> I've got a thread marked as killed (or 'killfile this person and all
> followups') then I don't want to see those posts -at all-. As it is
> MacSOUP still lets you see that they exist and get to them, which for
> people with poor willpower (ie, me) is no use at all.

Totally agree. I don't want to see anything in italics. I just want them
to disappear.

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From: Jim on
On 2010-07-02, Bella Jones <me9(a)privacy.net> wrote:
>> >
>> > > I'm a regular reader and occassional poster seeking help and I've always
>> > > received nothing but helpful and informative responses.
>> >
>> > I agree with you. But these post used to be the rule, and have nothing
>> > to do with the genuinely nasty posts we've been seeing lately. And,
>> > using MacSOUP, those are easy to spot and skip.
>>
>> This is one area where I'd like to see an improvement in MacSOUP - if
>> I've got a thread marked as killed (or 'killfile this person and all
>> followups') then I don't want to see those posts -at all-. As it is
>> MacSOUP still lets you see that they exist and get to them, which for
>> people with poor willpower (ie, me) is no use at all.
>
> Totally agree. I don't want to see anything in italics. I just want them
> to disappear.
>

I might email Stefan and suggest this. I'm not overly hopefull - I don't
think he wants to alter MacSOUP much nowadays - but it's worth a try. Even if
it was an option that's off by default.

Jim
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From: Bella Jones on
Jim <jim(a)magrathea.plus.com> wrote:

> On 2010-07-02, Bella Jones <me9(a)privacy.net> wrote:
> >>
> >> This is one area where I'd like to see an improvement in MacSOUP - if
> >> I've got a thread marked as killed (or 'killfile this person and all
> >> followups') then I don't want to see those posts -at all-. As it is
> >> MacSOUP still lets you see that they exist and get to them, which for
> >> people with poor willpower (ie, me) is no use at all.
> >
> > Totally agree. I don't want to see anything in italics. I just want them
> > to disappear.
> >
> I might email Stefan and suggest this. I'm not overly hopefull - I don't
> think he wants to alter MacSOUP much nowadays - but it's worth a try. Even if
> it was an option that's off by default.

And I have, of course, peeked into my killfile on the iPhone and seen
the cataract of abuse this has invoked from Rowland. I really wish
people would stop responding to this. It is totally unfair on the group
and spoiling it. Nastiness needs other nastiness to survive and no one
comes out of it looking good in the end.

--
bellajonez at yahoo dot co dot uk
From: Ben Shimmin on
Bella Jones <me9(a)privacy.net>:

[...]

> And I have, of course, peeked into my killfile on the iPhone and seen
> the cataract of abuse this has invoked from Rowland. I really wish
> people would stop responding to this. It is totally unfair on the group
> and spoiling it. Nastiness needs other nastiness to survive and no one
> comes out of it looking good in the end.

I have nothing to contribute to this other than to commend you for
the lovely expression `cataract of abuse'.

b.

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secret weapons, a Harvard education and so on.' -- Roger Ebert
From: Sak Wathanasin on
On 1 July, 21:07, James Jolley <jrjol...(a)me.com> wrote:

> And just what the hell am I meant to have done to any of you? I don't
> see it myself. Rowland causes trouble and you all just sit there and
> let him upset me specifically and give me a grilling whenever I dish
> back? What a funny world we live in.

Noone's having a go at you, James, and noone's "enjoying" Rowland's
posts about because most of us have killfiled him. All we see are your
pointless responses to him. If you calm down and read what people have
been saying to you, it boils down to "ignore everything Rowland posts
and don't get sucked into a slanging match". That's it. It's just
friendly advice intended to save you from high-blood pressure. Feel
free to ignore it.

> Why am I always the bad one on here folks?

The fact that people are giving you advice means that they want you to
continue participating in the group; if you hadn't had any responses
it would mean that people had given up on you and added you to their
killfile.