From: Don Caton on
"Craig Dawson" <craig(a)control.nospam.net.au> wrote in message
news:4517c40d$0$63035$c30e37c6(a)ken-reader.news.telstra.net:

> This is bound to get someone(s) back up...

I am disgusted and appalled at the lack of common decency some people
seem to have for another human being in this forum.

Do you treat every human being you disagree with with such venom and
hatred? Is this how you raise your children, to make personal attacks
against another human being with whom you have a simple business
disagreement? Would you be proud if your child, spouse, parent, friend,
minister, etc. read your post?

It's not like Brian broke into your home, raped your wife and killed
your children, yet a few of you guys seem to have no problem posting
hateful, venomous comments towards another person that some of you have
never even met. You should be ashamed of yourselves. How would you
feel if you, or a member of your family was treated this way?

I've known Brian for a long time, way before I ever had any business
dealings with him. And I can't recall ever having heard him say
anything nasty or negative towards another person. Brian is just a guy
like the rest of us, with a wife and kids and feelings like any other
human being has. Why don't you put yourself the in other person's place
for a moment and imagine how you would feel if you had these hurtful,
hate filled messages directed towards you?

We all become enraged at times, and maybe your post is not indicative of
the person that you really are, in which case an apology might be in
order. Otherwise, if disagree with the way Brian does business, and are
incapable of expressing your views without making personal attacks, then
please leave the rest of us to conduct our business in a civilized,
professional manner.

I know you only posted one message and there are a small few who have
done much, much worse, but this is the one that broke the camel's back.

To everyone else...

The only way this forum is going to be restored to a place of civility
and professionalism, is to not respond to those who continue to post
personal attacks towards other people.

--
Don Caton
Vulcan.NET Development


From: Jamal on
Don,

There is no doubt that some on this NG have lost it all due to the constant
barrage of negative posts by the evil doers who have turned this NG into
what is right now, a tool to spread their evil hate, smear campaign and
agenda. It's really a shame!

Without Grafx and Brian's commitment to VO, it would have been dead long
time ago. Without VOPS and the support of "real professionals" in the VO
community there would be no VO 2.8 and there would be no Vulcan. VOPS has
proven to be a real value to me and the produts that I sell and support.
This is why I will continue my support of Grafx undeterred by the barking of
the evil doers who have nothing else to do.

Jamal

"Don Caton" <dcaton(a)shorelinesoftware.com> wrote in message
news:q4ydnf45VOUSSIrYnZ2dnUVZ_rydnZ2d(a)comcast.com...
> "Craig Dawson" <craig(a)control.nospam.net.au> wrote in message
> news:4517c40d$0$63035$c30e37c6(a)ken-reader.news.telstra.net:
>
>> This is bound to get someone(s) back up...
>
> I am disgusted and appalled at the lack of common decency some people seem
> to have for another human being in this forum.
>
> Do you treat every human being you disagree with with such venom and
> hatred? Is this how you raise your children, to make personal attacks
> against another human being with whom you have a simple business
> disagreement? Would you be proud if your child, spouse, parent, friend,
> minister, etc. read your post?
>
> It's not like Brian broke into your home, raped your wife and killed your
> children, yet a few of you guys seem to have no problem posting hateful,
> venomous comments towards another person that some of you have never even
> met. You should be ashamed of yourselves. How would you feel if you, or
> a member of your family was treated this way?
>
> I've known Brian for a long time, way before I ever had any business
> dealings with him. And I can't recall ever having heard him say anything
> nasty or negative towards another person. Brian is just a guy like the
> rest of us, with a wife and kids and feelings like any other human being
> has. Why don't you put yourself the in other person's place for a moment
> and imagine how you would feel if you had these hurtful, hate filled
> messages directed towards you?
>
> We all become enraged at times, and maybe your post is not indicative of
> the person that you really are, in which case an apology might be in
> order. Otherwise, if disagree with the way Brian does business, and are
> incapable of expressing your views without making personal attacks, then
> please leave the rest of us to conduct our business in a civilized,
> professional manner.
>
> I know you only posted one message and there are a small few who have done
> much, much worse, but this is the one that broke the camel's back.
>
> To everyone else...
>
> The only way this forum is going to be restored to a place of civility and
> professionalism, is to not respond to those who continue to post personal
> attacks towards other people.
>
> --
> Don Caton
> Vulcan.NET Development
>
>


From: Chris Pyrgas on

Craig,

That was really disappointing to read. I can understand someone disagreeing,
being upset or frustrated with someone else, but using such personal insults
in public is another story.

I would never use such words even for my worst enemy in the world...

just FWIW,
Chris


From: Meinhard Schnoor-Matriciani on
Hi Don,

100% agreed.

Regards,
Meinhard


From: Geoff Schaller on
Don,

> Do you treat every human being you disagree with with such venom and
> hatred? Is this how you raise your children, to make personal attacks

Please, take a valium and then respond again. Although Craig's post is
possibly a little over the top, you totally misread things when you talk
of venom and hatred. It just isn't like that. What you should be hearing
loud and clear is serious disappointment and frustration. Craig doesn't
'hate' Brian any more than I do. Neither of us 'hate' anyone (I think
<g>). Hate is the wrong word and implies too much. I wish you guys
wouldn't put such emotional force behind words.

Perhaps what you are missing here is that Craig is expressing a loss of
a sense of community. VO was much more than just another dev
environment, it is a community and it is sad when anything diminishes
that. Unfortunately, Brian has taken us down that path and the loss of
community and resources hits the smaller players and contractors harder
than others. And they feel it quite emotionally. VOPS only weakens the
sense of community further.

This is what it is about. Frustration and disappointment, not venom and
hatred. Disappointed that our precious community is diminishing and
frustrated that we can't do anything about it. Please think on this.

Regards,

Geoff